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I really need help finding an ASD mentor who can help me navigate my changing workplace environment. I was able to find mentor services for teens and professional mentorship programs in the UK. I am looking for a mentor in the USA, preferably a woman.
In 2019, I was given the most amazing role I could have imagined at work. I got to work when was best for me. Every new developer came through my training program before moving onto their development team. I got great reviews from new hires, coworkers, and managers. I got feedback that many people were impressed at how great a job I was doing. I was absolutely THRIVING!
Several weeks ago, without any ceremony, discussion, or warning, I was given the role of Scrum Master. This means that it is now my job to facilitate team meetings. I went from like 3 hours of planned meetings a week to facilitating over 10 hours and attending more. In addition to that, I'm supposed to do some subset of my previous job, but I'm not sure what parts are the right things to do, since I've been told that the job of training is going back to the individual teams. I'm so overwhelmed that I'm crying right now. The context switching from Scrum Master to Knowledge Management is a very slow process. It takes me like 30 minutes to shift from one to the other, so it feels like I'm not accomplishing anything. By the time I'm working again, it's almost time for another meeting.
It doesn't help that I was in this role about a decade ago and was ASSAULTED AT THE OFFICE IN THE COURSE OF MY JOB AS SCRUM MASTER. Yes, really. And, yes... my boss and people who I think could control this decision are fully aware of that and the nearly decade of Complex PTSD that it left me with. My case was so severe that I couldn't go anywhere without triggering PTSD. Sometimes I couldn't even stay in my own backyard. I could easily trigger it over a dozen times a day. For years, I didn't understand that's what it was. I'm really struggling with psychological trauma of being a Scrum Master again, all this context switching, and climbing uphill against my brain to fulfill my new job duties.
I've gone from having a job that used all of my strengths and didn't require struggling against my weakest areas to a job that uses very few of my strengths and relies very heavily on my greatest weaknesses. I feel like I'm being set up to fail. I just want to go outside and hang out with the bees and forget that anybody else even exists...

Any dealer recommendations? Bolt qualifies for 2k from state and the 7500 tax credit
So these two combined has really made me consider one for short term purchase
Any way to test drive ? Since these are near impossible to find
I would like to test drive prior to committing to nearly 30-35k purchase
Anyone had luck with getting msrp and minus 2k incentive from NY state ?

I recently acquired a 2000 328i with 130k miles for next to nothing, but it has a failed clutch. I'd like to keep the car and repair it to drive daily, but I have some questions about what I should expect.
I have a reputable shop near me with a guy that's passionate about the E46 platform. Any ideas what this might cost me for repair? Do I really need someone that knows the platform for this, or can any transmission shop perform this work well?
Any thoughts are greatly appreciated!

My gf and I (both 20sF) are moving to Alexandria and have just signed a lease at the asher apartments. We weren't able to see the unit/area in person before we signed the lease but it seemed nice so we went on with it. I definitely should have done more due diligence.
I've started following nova and some alexandria news boards and have been seeing a lot of news about shootings/shots fired near the public housing in that area. Maybe not a *lot* of news, but definitely more than I expected in the last month alone.
Is this a legitimate concern for residents in the area or am I getting too wound up from the news? My gf has lived in cities all her life and accepts that it's just the reality, but I'm feeling worried about it. Is the area pretty safe to walk/commute in spite of the shootings? Sorry if this comes off as super sheltered and please tell me if i'm being silly.

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I'm vegan, obviously, and I want to go to culinary school. But there are zero vegan culinary school places near me.
The two that I plan on applying to both have meat, fish, dairy, etc.
Is there anything I can do to limit the awfulness? Like have someone else try my food?
Once I'm out I plan on working in vegan restaurants. (My area is fairly 'woke' and has many vegan restaurants.) I also plan on opening my own.

I've always been an introvert around my family, especially when I was a kid, I was always inward, silent, observing my father being the loud, angry man he has always been. Because of his loudness and nonstop tantrums and opinions over everything, I've despised being around him for as long as I can remember.My relationship with him was at its best when I was studying in Europe last year, but now I'm back and have to live with my parents for a year until I marry and move out.BUT I CAN'T TAKE HIS NOISES. He is an old man now and will not stop making the most annoying sounds 24/7. It's either the tooth sucking, the incredibly fast eating with the sound of the cutlery touching the plates, the endless opinions, the constant asking my mother about me and my doings, constant political discussions he has about the state of our country, always watching reels on his phone on loud volume, brushing his feet on the ground when he walks...I understand it's his house his rules and it's me who should be away, but I can't afford to... and our house is so small that I can literally hear every other noise. The bathroom is right beside my room and I can even hear every sound he makes when he's in there... It's driving me crazy!
Because of this, everytime I communicate with him, I respond in anger -cause the mere idea of being near him triggers my anxiety in multitudes...
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I'm a 27 y/o male trying to break into construction after leaving my shitty office job. I've been applying to general labor and other entry-level/helper positions for commercial GCs on Indeed, but I'm concerned that my 5 years of office work is a turn-off for employers who think I'm not serious/won't be able to hack it. Any advice on how to overcome this and prove to hiring managers that even though I'm new to this field, I'm a serious candidate, would be greatly appreciated.
Background:
I'm looking to get started in construction and either picking up a trade (plumbing is my main contender after carefully evaluating each) or working for a GC as general labor and working my way up to a management role at some point.
Obviously, I need to put in time on a jobsite at the bottom of the food chain in order to do either of these things, but I've been told that my resume, which features only two types of work experience (retail during HS/college and government affairs after that) can make hiring managers think that I'm not likely to stick around or can't handle the physical nature of the job.
I'm no pro athlete, but I'm not terribly out of shape and, after reviewing the requirements of the jobs I'm applying for and browsing this sub, I'm confident that the physical toll of this type of work is manageable for me, but I understand that my resume doesn't exactly prove that.
But, I have my OSHA 10, my own PPE, all the basic hand tools, a totally open schedule, my own car, and excellent references from my past colleagues; I'm hoping that's a good start to swaying an employer's perception of my ability to last in this field in my favor.
If applying to general labor gigs online doesn't pan out, I was planning to approach the multiple commercial job sites near my house (there's a new hospital being built just down the street, and two more apartment complexes beyond that) and present myself to the supervisomanagewhomever at the start of a workday (~6:30am) to see if that makes a difference. If that doesn't work, then my plan of last resort is to cold call all the GCs in my city and ask if they need labor at their sites.
Do y'all have any other tips on things I can do to overcome my white-collar background and get hired? I'm flat broke right now after moving back in with my parents and I desperately need work, but I can't to go back to doing government affairs/lobbying and I'd rather off myself than do retail again.
Thank you in advance for your insight and if anyone is down to give me some tips on my resume I'm happy to DM you a redacted copy.

Hello, I am a single mother to a 7yo he goes to the bso after school because I study and work. My ex husband complains always about me sending my child to the bso, but I don’t have options I live here alone no family to help. He also refuses to help more so I don’t care for his complains, I am currently going through a legal process to change the “ouder plan” in court. My son has a small cut with little bruise near his eye because he was playing with another child and the other child accidentally hurt my son, it was a mistake. But overall my son is a boy and he plays a little bit rougher than girls playing. Anyways my ex saw my sons face and took a photo of it, I know he’s trying to scare me but what can I expect from this is it bad that I send my son to bso… or am I to blame? The employees there are very nice and they love my son and they explained what happened. Hope I don’t get a lot of hate :) Thank you all

I was thinking of Darkshine and how he took consecutive losses during the monster association arc and that got me to realize something. In one punch man, the secret to explosive growth is experiencing near death and coming back. Basically taking a loss. And we know from darkshines backstory that Darkshine never fought a fight he knew he would lose, he just wanted a easy and satisfying victory. So to me that makes me think that yes he has trained extremely hard and that alone has gotten him to his already absurd strength but he is missing the kissing and near death aspect which he is only now experiencing. Garou, vomited president ugly, and golden S and really the only 3 who have pushed Darkshine into a corner and have him rethink his whole self image. So now if Darkshine can get back out there and fight win or lose no matter the opponent it’s the only way he will grow. I know he is in a slump right now but as someone who never wanted to lose, it’s the only way he will turn into even more of a beast. If near death experiences and feelings of rage turned garou from a street level character to a planetary (gargoyle form not god amped form) then imagine someone like Darkshine growing to that extent.
As a side note I feel like Darkshine should go back to bang for training and become a disciple to add to his strength. Giving Darkshine technique and finesse along side garou would be amazing to see not to mention that having these two intersecting with eachother now that they are both on the same side would be pretty cool. But I know how the webcomic goes and don’t know what they will do with darkshines manga story.

Hi everyone
I am looking to sublease my space in Coral Gables right near miracle mile. $1600 per month the lease expires on March 1.
4 people live in the main house. My space is a separate guest house in the backyard. It is a 1 bedroom with a full kitchen inside. The only thing you would need to access the main house is for laundry.
Message me for more details.

I don't know much about online selling but want to do some investment and start a business in this sector. I have a 400 sq yard plot near Saharanpur, which is 132 km from Chandigarh 2.5 to 3hrs travel time full highway and 200km from Delhi 3 to 4 hrs. On highway Dehradun is also close by . So thinking of a logistic hub for nearby cities like Chandigarh or 2nd option opening my own seller account and start supplying in Chandigarh so want to know should i start from that plot where i have plenty of space and no money is to be spent on rental or should i buy a rented showroom in chandigarh i live in chandigarh but no property is owned here is this a good approach for online selling or if any one can guide me how to use these resources efficiently

I used to have a complete squat rack and weights in my garage, but I moved and the place I'm at won't let me have all that. I've gone to the gym more recently, but honestly I'm not a gym person, I like home workouts as I can focus 100 percent on the muscle mind connection. I purchased undersun bands, a stepping plate and an innstar bar to perform compund movements, but I found the resistance and the entire experience to be subpar. The undersun bands are great for isolation movements and light compound stuff but the leg workouts left more to be desired.
I just bought the X3 and it arrived yesterday. I did both a pull and a push workout so far, and for legs, this thing is pretty amazing. I feel a burn in my quads I don't get from the undersun setup. It's also great for pulling exercises like the row and bicep curl. However I felt the chest press was terrible since I'm not huge and the tension doesn't start near my chest. The ROM is very limited and I think I'll just do banded push-ups instead.
The quality of the everything is top notch and to me, is worth the hefty price tag. The bar is heavy and has great knurling and feels like a barbell, but is small enough to pack anywhere and bring with you during travel. The plate is also made of metal and feels nice to stand on, and the bands are chunky and much thicker than the undersun bands. The resistance I feel when doing deadlifts and squats sort of took me by surprise. Sure, you could buy all this stuff separately and hack it on your own, but I like the elegance and feel of this set, it's certainly hits more than my innstabar setup which is under 200 altogether compared to the 550 of the x3. But I feel the value lies on the fact that it's specialized for heavy band training and nothing else (besides probably harambe) feels as good. I never feel bad about splurging on fitness equipment because you can't put a price on something if it improves your health and you actually use it.
Customer service also is great as I forgot to use a promo code for 50 dollars off and they gave it to me after the fact.
No one paid me to write this, I dont have an affiliate link or anything like that. I think the Dr Jaquish guy who owns the business is a bit of a weird guy and I don't agree with everything he says, I just wanted to give the x3 a shot and I actually like it. I think it's worth the money if you want the best experience doing compound movements with bands.

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This morning I went for a walk in a zoo near my home. I hadn't done it in years, but planet zoo made me want to do it again (and at this time of year there's no-one there!). After that I went back to planet zoo and I'd never been so inspired. It's the first time I've done a construction that I find so beautiful (which I'll come and share with you as soon as it's a bit more advanced).
In short, it made me wonder what zoos inspired you to build and invent your own? Are there any European zoos that you particularly like?
Enjoy the game and have a good afternoon!

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So I’m gonna be out of state for a week and I cannot bring the bike with me. Well, I live close to not quite in a pretty shady area (that multiple motorcycles have been stolen from recently) and I do not have a garage I’ve got a shelter but it’s not enclosed and no one will be at my house or near my house the whole time I’m gone. Well I mentioned this to my Riding Partner who has rode the bike before and I trust pretty well, and he said “let me borrow it I’ll take care of it won’t hoon it and I’ll keep it in my garage I’ve been itching to ride for a month now (his bike is having engine problems and he cannot find part to fix it except out of the other side of the country)” and I’m tempted to let him borrow it while I’m gone because it’d be safe at his place, it’s fully insured, he’s actually more experienced than me, and I trust him and his riding habits but I’m not sure if this is a bad idea or not. Any opinions? Good idea or outright stupid?

Hi all, I have a recently remodeled bathroom where there is a tiled wall behind vanity in the bathroom. I've noticed that if any water drops near the gap between the countertop and wall tile, it gets sucked up like a vacuum. Contractor put grout in that seam instead of caulk, not sure why. It looks nice, but I feel like it's a recipe for mold down the line (we had mold behind backsplash in the same bathroom prior to remodel, which we had to replace drywall for). Anyway, I tried to caulk it myself (over the grout) and it came out really bad bc I have no idea what I am doing. I ended up using a lot more caulk than usual bc the tile is textured and I had trouble filling the gaps in the tile without using a lot. Any advice on how to either fix or remove the caulk? Also, any advice on how to waterproof the area without looking too bad? Unfortunately bc the water faucet is wall mounted, water drops in that gap on a regular basis.
PS The contractor did not waterproof the wall bc he said the readyset would waterproof the wall, but the problem is the tile is only around the vanity, not behind it. So it seems to me the wall directly behind the vanity is still susceptible to water leakage / mold -- or am I being paranoid?
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This is very long- so thank you to anyone who takes the time to actually read it all.
Currently, my husband and I are living with his parents with our 3 children. My MIL is from hell and has been abusive the entire time we have been living with them. I work in healthcare- my husband works from home. I can’t obtain a full time job where we live because I won’t get the covid booster shot. I have already gotten both doses of the Moderna, but had a serious reaction to it and my doctor refuses to allow me to get another shot. I have had my doctor write letters and I have submitted medical exemption requests to the occupational health and HR departments of 3 hospital systems in the state and they have all denied me employment. Because it is a state regulated mandate, private organizations have the right to either terminate employees or deny medical/religious exemptions if they choose to do so. I have consulted with an attorney and my lawyer said that I can sue these companies but it’s not going to help me get a full time job out of them once I slap them with a lawsuit.
So it leaves me unable to work. I have been offered jobs in other states where this requirement no longer exists. After a long period of time, I have finally found a way to come to terms with the fact that I am going to need to move away. That’s fine - but here is the problem.
I have been sucking it up and living with an abusive person and literally tortured my life for MONTHS. It got so bad that my one child threatened to commit suicide and is now in intensive treatment/therapy. Before you say anything about me keeping him in this environment, there is a reason for my madness. Living with them has finally offered me the ability to save $ for the first time in my life with 3 children. Since I have only been able to rent in my life, I finally have enough $ to afford a down payment to buy my children their own house. We have lived in 10 different houses over the course of the past 12 years of our marriage, due to always being kicked out of our rental. It was never our doing (we always paid our rent on time). It was always either the owner wanting to occupy the house again or then wanting to sell it. That is why we have been living with my in-laws, to begin with. We got kicked out of our previous house due to the owner wanting to sell it. Ofcourse, again. My kids need a stable home, and so do I. I just can’t live like this anymore. I want him to have some level of stability and not be told that they haveto go to a new school again because we have to move. AGAIN.
I have been looking for houses with my husband in this new state so that I can start one of the job offers and the deadline is quickly approaching. We have put in many offers on houses and haven’t won a single one.I have started searching for a rental, but I have a big issue with this. Let me try to explain it in a way that others can understand…
I have put up with the torture of an abusive individual for nearly a year just to save money to provide my children with stability. Every single time we have gotten a rental, they require close to $10,000 for the deposit, and we never get all of it back when we have to move out. These scum bag landlords find “reasons” to always keep the $ and not haveto return the security deposit. Out of the 9 houses we have rented, we only got a partial refund of our security deposit from one of them, and that was only because we took the dude to court and we won! We didn’t have the $ or the time to sue each of them, one by one. But the last one, we did actually follow through with and we won the case.
Being that I have put up with so much agony just to save this little bit of $, I am extremely overprotective of it and I don’t want to let it go so easily. I saved all of this $ on my own by going to work while living here, before the booster shot became a mandatory requirement and just kept working to put it away. That is how we are now affording housing. I know that it’s not a lot of $, but I worked REALLY hard for it and I am proud of myself for enduring such a horrible living situation but doing it for the best interests of my children.
So now I need advice on what to do. I really don’t want to turn this $ over to some landlord and never see that $ again. But, we haven’t won any of the offers on the houses we have found. How can I keep this job offer and start the job in the other state without having to spend every single penny I have saved and blow it on a rental? It doesn’t help that my husband has been super picky about the house as well and won’t budge on many of the ones I have found that were decent. Would you suggest that I consider the other job offers in other areas that might possibly have better housing options available? Would you give up on this particular job offer (the one that I really want to do the most) and look for housing near the others? It’s not like I don’t have other job offers available. I do. It’s just that this particular one is giving me a really good sign-on bonus ($40k) that I intended to use for future investments. I have to commit to working there for 2 full years to receive all of the funds as they are broken up into payments. The other two job offers are giving me $15k and $5k, respectfully. These are commitment bonuses to retain medical staff in facilities. The offer for the $5k one really won’t be much after taxes, so it’s not going to help much towards savings. The $15k one is in a state that I am not too keen on living in because there is literally that one hospital and then no others in the surrounding areas. So I feel it limits my options should I not really like that facility too much. I’ll kinda be stuck there with no alternatives and I won’t be able to move again.
I guess what I am trying to figure out is do I need to give up this offer and consider other ones because I can’t find housing? Or should I find a way to accept that I need to get a rental and be “OK” with giving over all of the $ I have struggled so hard to save? I just know my luck and I never get any of it back. I also don’t want to go through moving again. I want my kids to finally have a permanent home that they can count on me to keep them in and finally have us all, as a family, feel safe and happy.
Thank you to anyone who has read this. It really means a lot and I appreciate the help. Thank you so much!

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One of our french drain sump pump drain pipes was clogged and jetting did not resolve the issue. I had to replace the 30 foot line from the side of my house to catch basin in the street.
First: Vinny at YourLocalDrainMan.com spent a 2+ hours trying to snake and jet the pipe. He found that one end was nearly collapsed; he was almost successful but in the end was unable to clear the line. He charged me less than originally quoted because he couldn't fix it and didn't spend as much time on it. Who does that?! He does. Really honest and professional person. He recommended Tom.
Second: Tom Bucci Excavation and Paving (I don't think they have a website!)- Tom only has a couple of reviews on Angi and one on Yelp but I gave him a call on Vinny's recommendation. He visited in a couple of days and laid out the plan. You get a vibe/read on certain people and I just felt super comfortable with Tom and his son Tony. Tom even spoke with the Building Dept to see if the issue closest to the basin was the result of the recent curb work to see if they'd pick up some of the cost. Unfortunately, he wasn't successful. Given that I know nothing about this stuff I was anxious and worried about what might go wrong but Tom and his crew covered everything imaginable and did a fantastic job. They:
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• Arrived on time with everything necessary to do the work.
• Crew of 4 + excavator
• Had the Gas and Water guys come out to mark the lines.
• Replaced the entire drain line.
• Made sure the gutter and sump pump connections we correctly position. One was back-pitched.
• Tied in a connection they found near the basin from the driveway.
• Cemented the surrounding area around the entry at the basin.
• Replaced all the soil. Raked it evenly. Reseeded with peat moss and straw. Here I am thinking I needed to call a landscaper!
• Kept everything tidy and cleaned up beautifully.

I paid $3400 for all of this work and honestly I feel it was worth much more. The professionalism, level of excellence, and downright respectfulness were simply outstanding.

Seriously it’s the only show near me and the only show that I can’t find any tickets for. Has anyone else has any luck with this?

This is very long- so thank you to anyone who takes the time to actually read it all.
Currently, my husband and I are living with his parents with our 3 children. My MIL is from hell and has been abusive the entire time we have been living with them. I work in healthcare- my husband works from home. I can’t obtain a full time job where we live because I won’t get the covid booster shot. I have already gotten both doses of the Moderna, but had a serious reaction to it and my doctor refuses to allow me to get another shot. I have had my doctor write letters and I have submitted medical exemption requests to the occupational health and HR departments of 3 hospital systems in the state and they have all denied me employment. Because it is a state regulated mandate, private organizations have the right to either terminate employees or deny medical/religious exemptions if they choose to do so. I have consulted with an attorney and my lawyer said that I can sue these companies but it’s not going to help me get a full time job out of them once I slap them with a lawsuit.
So it leaves me unable to work. I have been offered jobs in other states where this requirement no longer exists. After a long period of time, I have finally found a way to come to terms with the fact that I am going to need to move away. That’s fine - but here is the problem.
I have been sucking it up and living with an abusive person and literally tortured my life for MONTHS. It got so bad that my one child threatened to commit suicide and is now in intensive treatment/therapy. Before you say anything about me keeping him in this environment, there is a reason for my madness. Living with them has finally offered me the ability to save $ for the first time in my life with 3 children. Since I have only been able to rent in my life, I finally have enough $ to afford a down payment to buy my children their own house. We have lived in 10 different houses over the course of the past 12 years of our marriage, due to always being kicked out of our rental. It was never our doing (we always paid our rent on time). It was always either the owner wanting to occupy the house again or then wanting to sell it. That is why we have been living with my in-laws, to begin with. We got kicked out of our previous house due to the owner wanting to sell it. Ofcourse, again. My kids need a stable home, and so do I. I just can’t live like this anymore. I want him to have some level of stability and not be told that they haveto go to a new school again because we have to move. AGAIN.
I have been looking for houses with my husband in this new state so that I can start one of the job offers and the deadline is quickly approaching. We have put in many offers on houses and haven’t won a single one.I have started searching for a rental, but I have a big issue with this. Let me try to explain it in a way that others can understand…
I have put up with the torture of an abusive individual for nearly a year just to save money to provide my children with stability. Every single time we have gotten a rental, they require close to $10,000 for the deposit, and we never get all of it back when we have to move out. These scum bag landlords find “reasons” to always keep the $ and not haveto return the security deposit. Out of the 9 houses we have rented, we only got a partial refund of our security deposit from one of them, and that was only because we took the dude to court and we won! We didn’t have the $ or the time to sue each of them, one by one. But the last one, we did actually follow through with and we won the case.
Being that I have put up with so much agony just to save this little bit of $, I am extremely overprotective of it and I don’t want to let it go so easily. I saved all of this $ on my own by going to work while living here, before the booster shot became a mandatory requirement and just kept working to put it away. That is how we are now affording housing. I know that it’s not a lot of $, but I worked REALLY hard for it and I am proud of myself for enduring such a horrible living situation but doing it for the best interests of my children.
So now I need advice on what to do. I really don’t want to turn this $ over to some landlord and never see that $ again. But, we haven’t won any of the offers on the houses we have found. How can I keep this job offer and start the job in the other state without having to spend every single penny I have saved and blow it on a rental? It doesn’t help that my husband has been super picky about the house as well and won’t budge on many of the ones I have found that were decent. Would you suggest that I consider the other job offers in other areas that might possibly have better housing options available? Would you give up on this particular job offer (the one that I really want to do the most) and look for housing near the others? It’s not like I don’t have other job offers available. I do. It’s just that this particular one is giving me a really good sign-on bonus ($40k) that I intended to use for future investments. I have to commit to working there for 2 full years to receive all of the funds as they are broken up into payments. The other two job offers are giving me $15k and $5k, respectfully. These are commitment bonuses to retain medical staff in facilities. The offer for the $5k one really won’t be much after taxes, so it’s not going to help much towards savings. The $15k one is in a state that I am not too keen on living in because there is literally that one hospital and then no others in the surrounding areas. So I feel it limits my options should I not really like that facility too much. I’ll kinda be stuck there with no alternatives and I won’t be able to move again.
I guess what I am trying to figure out is do I need to give up this offer and consider other ones because I can’t find housing? Or should I find a way to accept that I need to get a rental and be “OK” with giving over all of the $ I have struggled so hard to save? I just know my luck and I never get any of it back. I also don’t want to go through moving again. I want my kids to finally have a permanent home that they can count on me to keep them in and finally have us all, as a family, feel safe and happy.
Thank you to anyone who has read this. It really means a lot and I appreciate the help. Thank you so much!